A Powerful Way of Using Law of Attraction to Allow What You DO Want in Your Relationships! 

After you read this short article you will feel excited as you now have a tool that you can use any time that you want with the Law of Attraction.

Some of you may be saying “What the heck is the Law of Attraction? I keep hearing about it and have been wondering what it is all about. Law of Attraction simply put is “attracting more of what you want and less of what you don’t want in your life.” The good news is that it really, really works. You can use the Law of Attraction in a very deliberate and intentional way.

Jane wanders through the record store and in the background she could hear a song playing, and a feeling of sadness surrounded her as she listened to the lyrics playing…

“Each day through my window I watch him as he passes by.
I say to myself, you're such a lucky girl.
To have a man like him is truly a dream come true.
Out of all the girls in the world, he belongs to me.
But it was just my 'magination, running away with me.
It was just my 'magination, running away with me.” (Thanks Temptations)

Yes, Jane was looking to meet that perfect partner. You know the kind? The one that is the dream come true, and makes your heart sing and have you jumping for joy.

Jane wrote her list of what she didn’t want in her relationship and then wrote what she did want on another list. Jane was making note of the differences from the two lists and then giving her energy, attention and focus to the list of what she did want in a relationship. She was ready for this Law of Attraction thing to start working. She waited, and she waited.  She waited some more. Just imagine how she felt when she had been so excited and nothing happened.

Visualize this happening to you? How would you feel?

Let me share what we call “Allowing” in the Law of Attraction. Allowing is simply the absence of negative vibration. She had created her “wish list” about her ideal relationship and still didn’t attract her desire of a perfect relationship. Okay! I can hear you saying to yourself “Why didn’t she attract the perfect relationship?” Are you ready for this?

Jane’s process didn’t work for her because it was not enough for her to just identify her desire and really, really want it. The key is that she also had to remove any and all doubt surrounding her beliefs on attracting an ideal relationship. Put another way, this doubt removing process is called “Allowing” in the Law of Attraction.

I know you are saying to yourself “How in the world do I do that?”

Here is the bottom line!

You see, a vibration is simply a mood or feeling.  So if you say to yourself “just allow” and feel like you wish may never show up, well then it rarely does show up, or if it does it shows up in a way that you don’t want. And guess what this negative vibration does?  Well, it is diluting your positive vibration.  If you have a really, really strong desire this creates a very positive vibration. If you have a very, very strong doubt that you can attract an ideal relationship you have just cancelled out your request to the Universe.

What this all means is that allowing occurs in the absence of doubt? How do you know when you have the absence of doubt?  You believe that having an ideal relationship is possible. You completely believe that you can have what you want. So when you remove your doubts, the speed at which the Law of Attraction manifests your desire will blow your socks off!  Why?  You are now allowing. The more you allow, the faster your desires will come to you. So what is one tool that you can use to speed up the Law of Attraction?

Just picture yourself using allowing statements.  Statements that help you experience relief and that you are going to really, really attract the ideal relationship.

Some powerful statements could be…

• There are thousands and thousands of women in the world who are in their ideal relationship right now.
• There are hundreds and hundreds of women right now who are meeting their ideal partner.

You probably get the idea.  You are giving yourself proof and notice that you didn’t say it was “you” in these statements.

It’s as simple as this…

When you remove doubt most people feel much better as now their desire is more believable. Another way you can tell is by noticing when evidence of what you wanted is showing up in your life, you know you are allowing.  You are removing your limiting beliefs around this subject and attracting more of what you want.

As you read these allowing statements you start to feel hope, this reduces doubt and your vibration raises and you become more positive.  Now the Law of Attraction can bring you your ideal relationship. Now you are a deliberate attractor.

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