Using the Law of Attraction to Change You’re Thinking and Get What You Want in Your Relationships 

Changing your thinking will change your vibration. Your vibe is your mood or feelings.

When you do this you are sending something completely different out to the Universe and getting completely different results. Can you remember a time when having the right tool got you what you wanted?

Imagine Jane listening to her I-pod and humming to her favorite song of the moment…

“I wanna know what love is
I want you to show me
I wanna feel what love is
I know you can show me” (thanks Foreigner)

You probably already know that Jane is single and is trying to attract her ideal relationship.  Jane has tried the Law of Attraction and so far it hasn’t worked. Or at least in the way that she wanted it to. The Law of Attraction was at working alright and right now and she was attracting the wrong kinds of relationships. Over and over again!

Now imagine if you were doing this too? Some of you may want to give up on the Law of Attraction just like Jane did. STOP! And picture what life will be like using Law of Attraction deliberately and intentionally to get what you really, really want. Wouldn’t it be amazing to understand how the Law of Attraction works and that you can attract all that you want in a relationship?

Just suppose it was your vibration (moods or feelings) that was being picked up by the Universe?  You know how you go to the gym and you meet someone there and you hit it off right away? You feel really good around her and she has good energy. Well this vibration or vibe is called energy. Okay! We all know that it is a science but lets forget about getting too technical. 

Really if you think about it you is either sending out a positive vibe or a negative vibe at any given time?  How can you tell? If you are sitting and reading this article and thinking about your relationship you are sending out either a positive or negative vibe. Right now!

Guess what?

Now you are realizing that whatever it is you are sending out in your moods or feelings you are attracting that back into your life. So right now whatever vibe you are sending out the Law of Attraction is sending you more of the same. Ask yourself this question “If you spent more time on positive vibes would you attract more of what you want?” And if you gave your attention, energy and focuses to what you do want will it come easily to you?

Yes! Read on.

Okay you are probably wondering what happens if you only have negative thoughts. Check in with yourself and if you are having a negative vibration, it means you had some negative thoughts, which means you may have been using some negative words.

Here is the good news.

You have the power within you to reset the results you are getting in your relationships. Think of your computer. When it goes haywire you press a reset button and bingo things change immediately. Now let this sink in for a moment! Yes, you can reset the results in your relationship. This is going from negative to positive. Notice how your vibration changes? You change your vibration by resetting your thoughts and changing the words that you use.

Just imagine for a moment eliminating some words from your vocabulary. Some simple words many of us use all of the time. The words are simple and common and they send out a negative vibration. They are “don’t”, “not” and “no”. Here’s a secret. When you are using these words, you have just brought attention, energy and focus to that which you don’t want.

Yes, you read that right!

Some of you may be saying “I don’t want a relationship that doesn’t make me feel good” or “No to relationships that drain my energy mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually.” Are you seeing how these words are giving attention to relationships that doesn’t make you feel good or relationships that drain you? Remember that whatever you give your attention, energy and focus too is what shows up in your life, whether it is positive or negative.

In the future when you find yourself using these words, think about what you do want, and as you start thinking about what you do want, you are changing your words, and when you change your words your vibration changes as well. You could be saying “I want relationships that make me feel really, really good” or “I want relationships that uplift me mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually.”

Forget about procrastination, hesitation or fear from stopping you from improving your life. You now have the tool that you can use to change your results right now. Today! Imagine, for a moment that it’s a month from today and where you could be in your ideal relationship?

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