Accept Yourself & Improve Your Law of Attraction Results!

Your self-acceptance begins in your early years, with the influence of your parents, siblings, friends, and other significant people in your life.

Your own degree of self-acceptance is determined mostly by how well you feel you are accepted by the significant people in your life and business.

Your attitude and approach towards yourself is determined mostly by the attitudes that you perceive other people have toward you. When you believe that other people think highly of you, your degree of self-acceptance and self-esteem goes up.

The best way to build a nourishing personality requires understanding yourself and your feelings whether they are good or bad! This happens through the easy exercise of self-disclosure. For you to truly understand yourself, or to stop being concerned by things that may have taken place in your past, you must be able to reveal yourself to at least one person.  You must rid yourself of those thoughts and feelings by revealing them to someone who won't make you feel embarrassed or ashamed about what has happened in your past.

Next is your self-awareness. Only when you can share what you're genuinely thinking and feeling to someone else can you become conscious of those thoughts and emotions. If the other person listens to you without remarking or criticizing, you have the opportunity to become more conscious of the person you are and why you do the things you do. You begin to develop perspective or objectivity.

Here is where it gets really good. After you've gone through self-disclosure to self-awareness, you arrive at self-acceptance. You accept yourself for the person you are, including the good and bad, and all your strengths and weaknesses. When you develop the skill to stand back and look at yourself truthfully, and to honestly come clean to others and yourself that you aren’t perfect, you begin to benefit from a heightened sense of self-acceptance.


A way to develop higher levels of self-acceptance includes performing an inventory of you. In performing this inventory, your responsibility is to put importance on the positive and lessen the negative.

Think of your distinctive gifts, talents and abilities. Think of your unique skills, the things that you do remarkably well that account for your accomplishments in your practice or business and in your life right now. Think about your potential possibilities and the fact that your potential is unlimited. You can do what you want, and go where you want to go. You can be the person you want to be. You can set small and significant goals and make plans and progress step-by-step, toward their actualization and realization. There are zero obstacles to what you can achieve apart from the obstacles that you create in your mind.

Here are two things you can do now.

Choose someone in your business or life that you can sit down with and let them know what is on your mind and in spite of everything that is still causing you unhappiness.

Next, develop perspective on your problem by standing back from it and imagining that it was happening to someone else. What advice would you give to that person?

Then, think frequently about the good experiences and accomplishments you have enjoyed in your business and life. Remind yourself regularly that you are a good person and you've done a lot of good things in your life.  When you create this habit of thinking your Law of Attraction results will improve.

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